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Aphenphosmphobia - Fear of Being Touched: Causes, Symptoms, Treatments, & Tips

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What is Aphenphosmphobia?

Aphenphosmphobia Definition

Aphenphosmphobia is the fear of being touched. People who have this fear avoid contact with people, which could relate back to sexual fears or fears they could become contaminated. People with this phobia might also have Agoraphobia (which is discussed on the home page) or Chirophobia (fear of hands). Aphenphosmphobia is considered to be a social phobia. Aphenphosmphobia is also known as Aphephobia, Chiraptophobia, Haphephobia and Haptephobia.

What Causes Aphenphosmphobia?

It is generally accepted that aphenphosmphobia arises from a combination of external events (i.e. traumatic events relating to being touched) and internal predispositions (i.e. heredity or genetics). Many specific phobias can be traced back to a specific triggering event, usually a traumatic experience at an early age. Social phobias and agoraphobia have more complex causes that are not entirely known at this time. It is believed that heredity, genetics, and brain chemistry combine with life experiences to play a major role in the development of phobias.

What Are The Symptoms Of Aphenphosmphobia?

The symptoms of aphenphosmphobia vary by person depending on their level of fear. aphenphosmphobia symptoms include:

  • Constantly avoiding being touched
  • Extreme anxiety
  • Dread
  • Panic attacks
  • Shortness of breath
  • Rapid breathing
  • Irregular heartbeat
  • Excessive sweating
  • Nausea
  • Dry mouth
  • Inability to articulate words or sentences
  • Muscle tension
  • Shaking

The symptoms of aphenphosmphobia are likely to occur when:

  • Someone touches you
  • Thinking of someone touching you
  • See someone being touched

How To Get Over Aphenphosmphobia

Aphenphosmphobia Treatments

The most popular treatment for aphenphosmphobia is to see a psychologist, psychiatrist, hypnotherapist, and/or hypnotist. These types of doctors can try to help the person cope with aphenphosmphobia or understand what is causing the problem so it can be resolved. We have also listed below the types of treatment that might be recommended.

Below, we have listed the types of treatment that might be recommended for aphenphosmphobia.

  • Meditation
  • Exposure Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • Hypnoanalysis (also called Hypnotherapy)
  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
  • Energy Psychology (yoga, tai chi, prana, qi gong, etc)
  • Medication

Meditation

There is a variety of meditation methods that exist that can be beneficial for a person suffering from aphenphosmphobia. To be specific, mindfulness meditation has been proven to be advantageous in helping someone enter a more equanimous state. There are a number of ways with which you can implement mindfulness meditation and there are also a number of meditation applications for your smartphone that are developed to make things as simple as possible.

Mindfulness can be of significant help for those who are affected by aphenphosmphobia because it helps them distract themselves from their phobia or fear of being touched by focusing their attention onto something else, such as focusing on breathing. This is a basic way for how one can meditate and be present.

While in the midst of a panic attack, someone with aphenphosmphobia could redirect their attention to the different sensations felt when breathing in and out which can actually aid in decreasing the amount of mental anguish endured during an episode of anxiety.

To help relieve one’s symptoms of aphenphosmphobia, one could implement mindful meditation by focusing on how the muscles in your chest and abdomen tighten and loosen with every exhale and inhale. Dwell on how it feels as your chest increases in size during each inhale and how it shrinks in with every exhale.

Besides putting your attention on breathing, you could also focus on what you hear around you, how your skin feels when you touch specific things, how certain foods taste, and how specific things smell. Basically, concentrating on your 5 senses can drastically help you get rid of some anxiety that aphenphosmphobia is associated with. Also, don't forget it will take patience and practice to become a proficient meditator. The key is to practice and be patient with yourself.

Exposure Therapy

Exposure therapy is a very common way to treat anxiety disorders like aphenphosmphobia. It has the potential to be a quick successful way to help desensitize a patient to their fears. It's extremely important that the therapist conducting the exposure therapy be very adept. As an example, if the therapist were to expose the patient with aphenphosmphobia slightly to their fear, it may not be effective because the patient already has small desensitization and may need a greater amount of exposure to really trigger something worthwhile of a change.

The same can be said for the antithesis of this scenario. If the therapist were to expose the patient with aphenphosmphobia excessively to their fear, it could be highly counterproductive to the point where their aphenphosmphobia may become increasingly worse. So, it is extremely important that the therapist conducting the exposure therapy for a patient with aphenphosmphobia is very sure of just how extreme their symptoms are so that they can understand the amount of exposure that the patient can endure.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a psycho-social intervention that targets to better one’s mental health. It is commonly used to treat those suffering from anxiety disorders like generalized anxiety disorder and OCD. Someone with aphenphosmphobia could benefit from CBT and determine how it could help them to have a more knowledgeable understanding as to why act and think the way they do when it comes to their irrational fears.

CBT can be extremely beneficial for someone with aphenphosmphobia given the uncontrollable symptoms. For example, when someone with aphenphosmphobia is exposed to being touched, most likely they will instantaneously have a subconscious reaction to their fear of being touched. The absence of introspection is likely a big reason why someone with aphenphosmphobia will suffer to the extent that they will. CBT can help you dissect your fear better than you typically could.

Besides putting in the effort of understanding one’s specific fears, someone with aphenphosmphobia engaged in CBT may also acquire different skills aimed at assisting to alleviate the anxiety caused by aphenphosmphobia.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is an extremely effective method of treatment for people struggling with regulating their emotions. It is typically used to treat those with borderline personality disorder. It can also be very beneficial for someone suffering from aphenphosmphobia. This is because of the numerous coping skills you can learn in a DBT group. These groups are usually 6 months long and may have two people to several participants.

An effective DBT technique for helping someone with aphenphosmphobia is half-smiling. This tactic works by making you think about being touched while you lightly raise the ends of your mouth by smiling slightly, thus the term “half-smiling.” Although, it may not be enough to just think about your fear of being touched while half-smiling, you also have to try to stop entertaining those hurtful emotions that your fear may evoke.

DBT heavily uses mindful meditation and can immensely benefit someone with aphenphosmphobia as it is conducted in a group setting, which helps to get the patient out of their comfort zone. These practices of group mindfulness may include consuming a warm tea to focus on the sense of taste and tactile senses or simply concentrating on the breath.

Another useful DBT technique that can help someone with aphenphosmphobia is coping ahead. The ideal setting for coping ahead is somewhere where you can sit down quietly without any distractions. Shut your eyes and think about the variety of situations where you would face your fear of being touched and overcome it or cope with it. This will help a lot with coping with aphenphosmphobia when you are actually exposed to being touched it in real life.

Hypnoanalysis (also called Hypnotherapy)

Hypnoanalysis (Hypnotherapy) is a type of therapy by which a person, with the assistance of a trained specialist, has his/her subconscious mind opened to suggestions for the purpose of changing one or more behavior patterns. When the subconscious is spoken to directly, it may be possible to find the issue triggering the phobia and introduce new ideas and positive suggestions. These positive suggestions may then be used to help make the changes you desire, such as being able to freely go to the doctor. Teaching the mind to attach different feelings to doctors, needles, or medical treatments can usually be accomplished in several sessions. Some people do not like people playing with their minds. However, hypnoanalysis (hypnotherapy) is considered to be safe and works fast. Hypnoanalysis (Hypnotherapy) has been approved as a method of therapy since 1958 by the American Medical Association.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)

NLP is basically the study and practice of how we create our reality. The basic premise of NLP is that the words we use reflect an inner, subconscious perception of our problems. If these words and perceptions are inaccurate, they will create an underlying problem as long as we continue to use and think of them. Our attitudes are, in a sense, a self-fulfilling prophecy. In this therapy, a neuro-linguistic therapist will analyze every word and phrase you use in describing your aphenphosmphobia symptoms or concerns about your health. He or she will examine your facial expressions and body movements. After determining problems in your perception, the therapist will help you understand the root cause. The therapist will help you remodel your thoughts and mental associations in order to fix your preconceived notions. These preconceived notions may be keeping you from achieving the success you deserve.

Energy Psychology

Energy Psychology is a type of therapy that uses various techniques, such as acupressure, yoga, tai chi, prana, qi gong, and energy medicine, which teach people simple steps for making changes in their lives. The techniques stimulate energy points on the surface of the skin which, when paired with specific psychological procedures, can shift the brain’s electrochemistry. While this type of therapy is still a controversial area, it appears to be very helpful with dealing with aphenphosmphobia.

Can I take medicine for aphenphosmphobia?

Medicine can be prescribed, but please note that these medications can have side effects and/or withdrawal systems that can be severe. It is also important to note that medicines do not cure aphenphosmphobia, at best they only temporarily suppress the systems. However, there are treatments for aphenphosmphobia, which include counseling, hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, and Neuro-Linguistic programming.

Aphenphosmphobia Tips

While it is recommended that you see a specialist for aphenphosmphobia, listed below are some helpful tips that may help you cope.

  1. In order to combat fear, you should take a positive approach and be mentally ready and in control at all times. You could try using relaxation and yoga techniques.
  2. One way to control a phobia is to ignore it, which is easier said than done. However, if you think or talk about it, then you will create more fear and anxiety, which might make the phobia worse.
  3. Try researching more information about your phobia. They say knowledge is power and it might help you in the long run. However, do not dwell on the phobia, or it might make it worse.
  4. Take some classes or seminars regarding your phobia. They will help you learn about yourself and your phobia. It can be a rewarding experience.
  5. Attend discussion groups that allow you to talk about your fears. The groups allow you to develop bonds with others with phobias and let you know you are not alone.
  6. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people that you trust who can give you assistance and feedback on your fear.
  7. Order books or subscribe to magazines that provide you with information regarding your phobia or how to overcome it.
  8. Try the Ten Minute Cure, which claims to get rid of absolutely any phobia in just 10 minutes.